Why combine mourning with celebrations?

Once a year, there is a week long period during which Israelis take the time to remember events from the past. It begins with the Holocaust Memorial Day and ends with Remembrance Day for fallen soldiers. Both days are characterized by their profound moments of silence that are accompanied by the sound of a country-wide [...]

Everything has changed, but relationships are universal

One of the wonderful things about living in a more international context is meeting all kinds of people from various walks of life and, I sincerely believe that if you allow them to, these relationships can open you up in ways that nothing else can. Of course, with the good stuff comes that other side, [...]

Is law absolute or is it also relative to culture?

When living in a different country, one realizes that culture is a very complex organism with a set of fluidly interchangeable rules that can only be truly understood by natives. For everyone else, it’s a constant negotiation (either that, or complete and total blindness). Since I moved abroad, I’ve realized that many aspects of our [...]

What Israelis do after the Army

As the army service is truly a pivotal point in the life of almost every Israeli, it is not surprising that when many of them complete their service they tend to have the same reaction, aka flight. Or, if we want to be a little more politically correct about the matter, we can say that [...]

One of the cultural side-effects of army service in Israel

There is a phenomenon here in Israel that is definitely out of the ordinary, and that is the constant movement of soldiers from one end of the country to the other. If you are a tourist or a new immigrant, this reality is especially evident as they represent a large portion of the population that [...]

Durban II collides with Holocaust Memorial Day

And there is no question, that whether or not it was done intentionally, the resulting comparisons litered the local media this morning with parallels drawn between Ahmadine-jihad and Hitler. Seeing as how this kind of tactic is typical of sensationalistic media and clearly targetted at the deepest paranoias of the Jewish people as a whole, it [...]

Social integration depends on your perspective

That’s what I learnt today from a 20 year-old student who, when asked what difficulties he encountered while integrating into Israeli society, said: None None. Can you believe it? I have to admit that, given my own experiences, this statement was really hard for me to swallow.  My initial reaction was complete and total skepticism [...]

Culture Shock – Why so shocking?

So after a particularly difficult weekend, in which my emotions actively jumped from one end of the spectrum to the very opposite extreme in the span of a whole five minutes, I decided to do a little web sleuthing in order to see if i’m the only crazy person out there who is finding life [...]

How to make decisions when living abroad

It’s a strange set of affairs living in another country. As someone close to me recently said: I don’t know how you did it. I moved to another city and everything felt so different… Even now, eight years later, I only know how to get to and from my apartment, where to buy milk and how long [...]

Blogging as an identity

There is no question in my mind that modern technology has revolutionized standard communication and turned it into something much much more dynamic. Each form of communication, e.g. blogs, Twitter, SMS, Facebook, Digg, etc., has it’s own particular style and method that defines it as a medium and, each one allows for a different kind [...]